hi sunshine!
Welcome to the Golden Approach:
where we grow beyond the golden rule.
A Recipe for OptimismWe’re going beyond the golden rule to create space for how we truly want to be treated: the golden approach. After all, we don’t know what we don’t know — but when we share what we do know, we uncover new ways of thinking and being. Sharing those skills that we were born with as well as the ones we’ve nurtured means we can build a world that embraces curiosity, diversity, and kindness — and feel optimism about what’s yet to come. What can we learn from you?
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Show off your commitment to growing beyond the Golden Rule with some swag.
Let’s Break the IceAubrey Shaffner: classically trained chef, genuinely curious about everything, and determined to make the world a bit better every day.
Capricorn/Leo/Gemini
B’more girl, living in a classic rowhome with my little family
Loves dressing up just as much as she loves camping in the wild
Graduated from the CIA (not that one) & trained in some of the best hotels for the best chefs in the world
Adores every second she gets to be a part of this project & it’s all thanks to you <3
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This product features 80 lined, cream-colored pages, a built-in elastic closure, and a matching ribbon page marker. Plus, the expandable inner pocket is perfect for storing loose notes and business cards, so you’ll never lose track of important information.
• Cover material: UltraHyde hardcover paper
• Size: 5.5" × 8.5" (13.97 cm × 21.59 cm)
• Weight: 10.9 oz (309 g)
• 80 pages of lined, cream-colored paper
• Matching elastic closure and ribbon marker
• Expandable inner pocket
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
Cost Breakdown
Manufacturing Costs: $13.21
business taxes: $3.30
Supporting the Golden Approach: $3.49
Power of Your Purchase
By purchasing this item you are directly supporting the Golden Approach Podcast. 100% of the proceeds from this item go towards the operating costs of the Golden Approach Podcast. This allows us to continue to create the content you love while you get some rockin’ merch.
Add some sparkle to your life with these holographic stickers. Made from high-quality vinyl, they’re easy to peel and stick, and their adhesive backing ensures long-lasting durability. The unique holographic effect catches the light in a mesmerizing way, making them the ultimate eye-catcher.
• Hot-embossed, which creates a deep 3D pattern
• Durable vinyl, perfect for indoor use
• Fast and easy bubble-free application
Disclaimer: Please note that this product is suitable for indoor use only.
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
Cost Breakdown
Manufacturing Costs: $4.00
Taxes: $0.40
Supporting the Golden Approach: $0.60
Power of Your Purchase
By purchasing this item you are directly supporting the Golden Approach Podcast. 100% of the proceeds from this item go towards the operating costs of the Golden Approach Podcast. This allows us to continue to create the content you love while you get some rockin’ merch.
Add a splash of color to your morning coffee or tea ritual! These ceramic mugs not only have a beautiful design on them, but also a colorful rim, handle, and inside, so the mug is bound to adda little sunshine to your mug collection.
• Ceramic
• 11 oz mug dimensions: 3.79″ (9.6 cm) in height, 3.25″ (8.3 cm) in diameter
• 15 oz mug dimensions: 4.69″ (11.9 cm) in height, 3.35″ (8.5 cm) in diameter
• Lead and BPA-free material
• Colored rim, inside, and handle
• Dishwasher and microwave safe
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
Cost Breakdown
Manufacturing Costs: $7.95
Taxes: $1.22
Supporting the Golden Approach: $1.83
Power of Your Purchase
By purchasing this item you are directly supporting the Golden Approach Podcast. 100% of the proceeds from this item go towards the operating costs of the Golden Approach Podcast. This allows us to continue to create the content you love while you get some rockin’ merch.
Life can get a little boring sometimes, but these cute stickers are here to help! Decorate your laptop, water bottle, or notebook with some adorable designs, and make everything a little more special.
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
Cost Breakdown
Manufacturing Costs: $4.00
Taxes: $0.40
Supporting the Golden Approach: $0.60
Power of Your Purchase
By purchasing this item you are directly supporting the Golden Approach Podcast. 100% of the proceeds from this item go towards the operating costs of the Golden Approach Podcast. This allows us to continue to create the content you love while you get some rockin’ merch.
How We’ve Earned Our Stars“I just like how open everyone is. Like, you've got good people in your corner & it's just nice to hear about everyone else's experiences... to know that it's not just you going through all of that chaos, Like, it's the collective human experience.”
— Meg Puglisi (Top fan & Episode Guest: 018)“I think it's so beautiful what you're doing... I love listening to all the stories that you discuss on the Golden Approach.”
— Dru Tevis (Episode Guest: 017)
“FOH or BOH it doesn't matter. This podcast is for you. I love that the host got in touch with industry professionals, & got their stories & perspectives. A great way to encourage people to leave some of the toxic trends that have been passed down over the years.”
— Apple Podcast Review by "Basiloilemulsion"